Which personality do you have?

You have seen many people with many different faces and some of them may look pretty to you and others don’t but have you ever thought: what do they think? How do they feel? How might their behavior be?

Yes? Then what are you waiting for let’s dig into it!

What’s a personality?

Personality means difference in an individual’s way of thinking, behaving, and feeling.

What are the differences?

These differences are:

• Extroversion
• Introversion
• Openness
• Conscientiousness
• Agreeableness
• Neuroticism

Extroversion:

This is the personality in which people are socially active. They are talkative. They have many friends and are willing to make new friends. These people like to express themselves.

Introversion:

This personality is the opposite of extroversion. These types of people are not talkative. They like to be alone. They have a small social circle. They don’t express themselves to others.

Openness:

These kinds of people always welcome new experiences. They are creative and imaginative. They enjoy doing new things and are willing to learn more.

Conscientiousness:

This personality is all about the people who are self controlled, well organized and they know how to manage their time.

Agreeableneness:

These types of people are selfless, helpful and emphatic.

Neuroticism:

The individuals of this kind are emotionally unstable. They mostly stay sad, angry and frustrated. They experience stress more than others. And they have mood swings.

Now, I think you know which types of people you face and more importantly, you may have found which personality you have. Right?

Did you know there are some personality disordered people as well?

Personality disorder is a mental disease in which you have odd behavior, thinking and feelings.

How can you know if someone has a personality disorder?

You can know it by the following:

• The way someone explains himself.
• The way someone acts and deals with others.
• How someone responds to emotions
• Someone controls impulses.

Luckily, the personality disorder can be treated and some of the treatments are described below:

personality disorder can be treated by

• Prescribed Drugs
• Psychotherapist
• Social worker

How can you help someone with a personality disorder?

For help, you need to create a good relationship with this type of person. Then, you can ask him/ her about his/her stress. You can also advice them to see mental health professionals.

How do you get your personality?

There are two main factors that make up your personality. First is the environment and second is genes. Social media also affects you but the personality that you get from social media is fake and it causes stress. So you don’t need to copy any of your social media heroes or heroins because you are better with your own inner charms.

How does the environment influence your personality?

Let me tell you a story:

A long time ago there was a man named Lazalo. He had three daughters. He was a man of belief and he firmly believed that “a genius is not born, but is educated and trained”. He filled his house with chess books and posters of the best chess players. Every day, he and his daughters used to play chess against one another. When her oldest daughter was four years old, she started defeating adults. Then his middle daughter did even better. She became the world’s chess champion and then grandmaster. His youngest daughter did best of all. When she was five years old, she used to defeat his father. When she became twelve years old, she was the youngest in the world’s top hundred players. After that she became the youngest grandmaster. When she grew up, she became the world’s first-ranked female chess player.

Did you notice how much parenting and the environment affect children?

What role genes play in personality?

Genes can influence personality but they can’t do anything alone. They work with the environment to do a particular job. For example: if you have genes for emphysema__a lung disease that causes shortness of breath__you will not get emphysema till you smoke. When you smoke, these genes will be activated and you will get emphysema.

Is it possible to change personality?

Yes, you can change your personality but it requires a lot of effort.

Tips for changing personality:

Change your belief. It means that you can only change yourself if you believe that you can. If you don’t believe that you can, then nothing is going to change.

Make new habits. If you are an introvert and you wanna be an extrovert then start sitting with other people regularly and try to push yourself slowly. One day will come when you’ll feel comfortable with other people.

Takeaways:

We have different personalities. Sometimes, we feel like we are less worthy than others. We get stressed. But this moment is not for stress, this moment is for change and improvement. If you keep on improving, one day will come when you’ll become best.