You may have children but have you ever thought you are a good parent or not?have you ever thought how your behavior can affect your child? Believe me it affects more than you think!
Let’s go into details and make the wrong right.
Parenting
Parenting is the process of raising children from childhood to adulthood.
It means: it’s you who is going to make your child successful, kind, confident or self doubting, unsuccessful and selfish.

Let’s see what your parenting style is
There are four parenting styles
- Authoritative
- Authoritarian
- Permissive
- Uninvolved
Authoritative
These types of parents are:
- They create a strong bond with their children.
- Parents set rules for their children and tell them how it’s useful for them.
- Parents develop an authority over their children but they also listen to their children and take their opinions.
As a gift, these children become self- disciplined, confident and do well in academic activities and become successful people.
Authoritarian
This parenting style involves parents that are:
- They think that they are always right and they don’t need to listen to their children.
- They set rules and if their children don’t obey they give them physical punishments.
As a result, children become liars, they face depression and develop self esteem problems.
Permissive
Permissive parents are those:
- Who doesn’t set any rule for their kids.
- They only step into serious problems.
- They allow their children to do whatever they want. If their children make a mistake they rarely react.
As a result, children become careless and face academic issues.
Uninvolved parenting
Such parents are:
- These parents don’t look after their children.
- They rarely talk to them.
- They don’t take care of their needs.
As a result, children face behavior issues, they lack self worth and they mostly stay sad.
So, you might have seen which type of parents you are and what will happen if you apply a certain parenting style.

Which type of parenting style should you adopt?
You don’t need to apply only one parenting style besides you should keep on changing your parenting style according to the situation.
Let’s understand with an example.
There was a boy named Jack. One day, he had a fight with his classmate. He went to his home angrily. His mother asked him. He told everything then his mother told him to find his mistake and make them right (she acted like authoritative parents). The next day, he had a test and he used mobile whole day and didn’t prepare. He got zero. Then his mother acted strictly and set rules for him just like authoritarian parenting style. Then he grew up and he had to choose his career, he asked his parents and he got a reply that it’s your life; you have to choose what you think is best for you. Then he found out what was best for him and he did well in his career and became a successful person.
You saw how his parents used different parenting styles and made him a successful person!
Now, it’s your turn.

Wait, there’s more!
Your children always keep on noticing you. They see what you do. Whatever you’ll do they’ll do as it is. If you love them, their oxytocin(feel good chemical) will be released that will make your child calm, loving, empathic and self awared. But if you shout at them and beat them cortisol and adrenaline will be released and they will block the path of feeling good chemicals and make your child fearful, unable to solve problems, depressed and anxious.
Do you want this?
You can make a difference
If you had parents that were not good to you so don’t repeat that same mistake. Their bad parenting may have affected you a lot but now it’s you who is going to make everything right. If you have any problems in your life and you feel that’s because of your parents then you should overcome those problems. Try to improve and make yourself what you want yourself to be. Join a good company because the environment also affects you so by getting a good environment you can be better but you need to work on yourself.
If you want it then you can do it.































